That's disgraceful. I would never trust her again.What is the etiquette with visiting friends - to stay for more than a night - when you know you have a (bad) flu/virus ?
Should you warn them - tell them you are quite ill and ask if you should still come ?
We just had visitors - before our trip away - and they arrived full of a virus. She claimed it was "only a sinus" thing. So we kissed and hugged each other and sat close etc.
I noticed her husband starting to get it then. Very nasty cough - sore throat etc etc. They stayed a week. Now I have it - feeling quite bad.
When we were helping our son move up here he and I got something. I told friends who we had planned to stay with and said we couldn't come. They accepted it.
I guess I'm annoyed because I now have it - something I rarely get - and basically they lied about it. Apparently she did know it was a virus (the husband inadvertently told me). She did some teaching with kids before coming away and they had it.
Am I wrong - do you just turn up ? Or should you say something ?
They are very good friends - but surely you tell people if you are unwell - BEFORE hand.